Love Lessons for Women
Emotional Manipulation Can Backfire on Women
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Some women try to manipulate men into marriage. Games of sexual seduction, unplanned pregnancies, and various other forms of emotional blackmail are commonly used by women who are desperate to get married. However, this kind of behavior can backfire if the man recognizes the games being played with his future. And when the integrity of the relationship has been damage, he will most likely dissolve the relationship and walk out of the woman's life. So if you meet a man that you want to marry, don't use schemes and tricks to get him to the wedding chapel. Instead, let your relationship with him develop and mature at a natural pace, instead of playing mind games to manipulate him into marriage, prematurely. |
Don't Waste Time Looking for Sugar Daddy
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You should never approach marriage believing it to be the key to your financial freedom. Even if you manipulate a man into marriage and he decides to pay off your bills, you will most likely have money problems again if you fail to modify the behavior that triggered your financial problems. It's one thing for a man to voluntarily pay off your bills and take care of your financial obligations, before or after the wedding, but it's an entirely different situation if you emotionally manipulate a man into taking on your financial responsibilities. A better alternative for you would be to educate yourself about how money works. With the right knowledge you can become self-supporting through good work ethics, a regular savings program, and wise investment moves. Therefore you will not be dependent upon someone else to support you, financially, whether you get married or not. |
Don't Disrespect Blue Collar Bachelors
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Many college-educated women feel they are superior to men who have not attended college. Therefore they frequently reject marriage proposals from men who do not have a college degree, believing they can find a "better man." A woman who thinks like this is usually holding out for a man who not only has a degree, but also has an executive level position and the discretionary income to satisfy her fancy for the good life. She may spend her twenties and thirties waiting for her prince charming while "dissing" blue collar bachelors on a regular basis. Consequently, she may reach her mid-forties, having become a lonely, childless, bitter woman, wondering why her prince charming never came along. Yet, she may have rejected several marriage proposals from good men along way, simply because they were not college graduates. And that's too bad. Because her prejudice toward blue collar men may have robbed her of a fulfilling relationship with a loving, responsible man, with the work ethics to provide a comfortable standard of living without ever attending a single college class. |
