Love Lessons for Men
Poor Grooming and Hygiene
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Although a shower and shave before a date should be a normal practice, some men don't seem to think so. Without taking a shower or bath, they may splash on their favorite cologne and brush their teeth and think their date won't know the difference. However, most women have very alert senses of smell. So men, don't skip the shower and deodorant before going on a date with a woman you want to marry. There may be times when you can skip the shave, but never skip the shower or bath. Taking good care of your hands and fingernails is also important. The way you touch and caress a woman with your hands can enhance romance or turn her off for the rest of the date. When you clip your nails and use moisturizer on your hands they will feel more pleasant when you touch that special lady. Taking time to press the wrinkles out of your clothes before dressing up is important also. Clean clothes look even better after they are neatly pressed with a warm iron. A shoeshine speaks well of you too. The look of a moderately priced pair of shoes can be enhanced if they are cleaned and shined on a regular basis. Don't neglect your teeth either. Even though you may brush your teeth every day, take time to visit the dentist on a regular basis. Your oral hygiene can impact how often you get a good night kiss at the end of a date. |
Don't Let Her Body Blow Your Mind
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Although the physical attributes of a woman can quickly get a man's attention, a man who is searching for a wife should take time to look beyond what the natural eye can see. He should dig a little deeper because it takes effort to identify the characteristics that are required to be a good wife. Far too many men settle for a pretty face and a sexy body instead of praying and trusting God to lead them to the right woman. I don't mean to imply that the right woman will not be an attractive woman. She may be very attractive. It is not uncommon for beautiful women to also reflect spiritual substance, and other good character traits. So I am not suggesting that attractive women should be avoided. As a matter of fact, I would never suggest that a man, or woman, marry a person to whom he or she is not physically attracted. However, I do urge you to take a serious look at the character, work ethic, emotional maturity, spiritual maturity, and other important compatibility factors before placing a wedding band on a woman's finger. Don't settle for a cute smile and a sexy figure if those are all she has to offer as a wife. Because to be a good wife, a woman needs to be intelligent and mature enough to handle the responsibilities of married life as she maintains an attractive appearance. |
Flashing Money for Honey
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It has never been wise to flash your money to impress a woman nor has it ever been wise to attempt to win her affections with expensive gifts. Furthermore, it's not only unwise to use money to get the attention of a woman, but it's also very childish. If your relationship with a woman is based upon the money you spend on her and the expensive gifts you buy for her, the relationship will turn sour as soon as you cut back on the spending. Men who use money and gifts to get next to a woman can find a date and cheap sex this way, but not the kind of woman most men would really want to marry. On the other hand, some women like men who think like this. They will typically date him long enough to gain control of his money through emotional games, false accusations, or paternity suits. If she doesn't do either of these things, she may date him long enough to manipulate him into paying off her credit cards, buying her a few diamonds, a new car or even a new house before dumping him in favor of a different man who has a bigger bank account. So if you want the kind of relationship that can survive the normal challenges of life and the unpredictable struggles of marriage, don't build your relationship with a woman on a foundation of material possession and money. |
